In Times Of Sorrow

Count Your Blessings!!

😕

Yes.

That is what you should do.

When the world seems to be tumbling down... or has tumbled down.💣💔

When the whole world seems to be against you.😢

When all windows seem to have closed.😨

When all doors seem to have closed too.😰

You should start to count your blessings.

Be grateful for even the littlest things.

I am writing from experience. So, please believe me. It will change your mindset and eventually, your life.

Even if you are broke, or failed an important test, lost a business or terminally ill, there are still a lot of blessings to count.

That you are still alive today
That you have a roof over your head
That you don't have to go hungry
That you still have a job that pays the bill
That you can still see your children today
That everyone is safe and sound at home
That your little picky eater ate half of his food

Little blessings like these can do a lot during times of sorrow.

They can set your mind in the positive direction.

On top of that, concentrate on your responsibilities. Focus on accomplishing every duties instead at spending your time thinking or worrying about the problems.

And LAST BUT NOT LEAST,

SING!

Yes. Sing aloud if you can but if you can't just hum a tune or two.

SO,

count your blessings and sing as often as you can

AND

before you know

your life has been renewed and rebuilt! 😊

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